“Good morning Abhishek dada, I have scheduled a post on the Slum Soccer Facebook page for tomorrow. Please check and review.”

I’ve had this online conversation with 22-year-old Pankaj multiple times now. The first thing that jumps out at you about the kid is his unconditional politeness and determination to show others respect. He may have just gotten off a long training session in the sweltering heat, but he will still ask if you’ve had lunch or not.

A childhood of abuse and addiction

Pankaj seems to take the hands dealt to him in a very sanguine manner. “You get used to the poverty after a while. But not the beatings.”

Born in Godhani near Nagpur, Pankaj spent his childhood battling the abusive overtures of an alcoholic father and his own addiction with tobacco. “I was addicted to smoking and tobacco from a very young age, around 14-15 years. It was tough to escape the addiction, because the addiction itself was a means to escape the beatings I got from my father,” Pankaj said.

“My father was a big alcoholic and beat my mother regularly as well. I had a roof over my head, but it felt like a jail more than a home. I often spent my time outside, roaming around in the heat and not doing anything in particular,” he added.

Football and a world of escape

Pankaj found football amidst sun and serendipity after he ran away from home following a particularly bad beating episode. “My father had hit my mother with an axe, she was pretty badly hurt. I got another beating for standing up to him. I was sitting outside, crying, while Homkant dada found me and heard my story patiently,” Pankaj said.

“I was very sad and angry, and wasn’t explaining properly. But Homkant da stayed till he got the entire story out of me. He even went around and asked my friends about me. After all this, he asked if I wanted to play football. I said I didn’t know how to play. He said he hadn’t known either, but now he did,” he added.

Silver linings can crop up without warning in the bleakest of clouds. Pankaj felt the pressure lifting off his youthful but weary shoulders as soon as he started running with the ball. “It was very simple, but still demanded all my focus. While playing football, I didn’t think about the worries of home, my poverty, or my tobacco addiction. For those 20-30 minutes, I was just a kid again,” said Pankaj.

The fight – and fall – against addiction

As Pankaj started becoming a regular in Slum Soccer camps, he grew more confident in his fight against addiction. “We attended special de-addiction sessions, which not only helped me, but drove me to try convincing my father as well.

“I think with time he started understanding me. He started understanding that the alcohol was bad for him, and that he was down a bad path, and that his own son knew it. I think he also understood that he was too far down that path to fight the addiction. So he committed suicide,” said Pankaj.

The tragic fact is stated with a steadiness and calm that belies Pankaj’s years. Almost as if he’s asking you whether or not you’ve had lunch.

Poznan pride and captaining India

“I buried myself even deeper in football after this,” Pankaj says. “My father’s death broke me, but a part of me also wanted to make sure that I do not let my life go down the same path. I needed to do something useful. I had to.

But along with exhilaration came the realization of gaps to be filled. “I didn’t know English at all, and could hardly understand what the other teams were saying. We mostly communicated through gestures. I made a mental note to study English properly after coming back. I also wanted to continue in football, come what may.”

After returning from Poznan, Pankaj started a BPE (Bachelor’s in Physical Education) which he completed this year. Slum Soccer also helped send him to Vietnam for an Adidas Coaches Training Program. His English is very impressive now, with his scheduled posts on the Facebook page getting approved sans changes.

Pankaj has his fingers in many footballing pies now. He takes care of Slum Soccer’s Shakti Girls program, and helps Homkant set up camps, organize tournaments, and deliver coaching sessions. His own story serves as an inspiration to every member of the current team training for the Homeless World Cup to be held in Glasgow next month.

With resolve that breaks mountains and humble poise that shoos away storms, I don’t think anything can stop Pankaj from becoming Indian coach one day.

“Thank you, Abhishek da!”

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